Defiance & Lipstick
Pillow Princess, a queer woman, or human for that matter, that prefers to receive rather than give during sexual encounters. A term that is often used as an insult. No one wants to be a pillow princess, no one will admit they are a pillow princess, being a pillow princess means being selfish, spoilt and…
Femmephobia is nothing new to me: From when I came out, where I was not allowed to enter LGBT venues because I did not look gay enough to recent dating experiences where sexualised objectification is common practise, femmephobia was and is omnipresent. However, it took a recent online discussion for me to realise how deep…
Confessions of a damaged heart is me sharing some of my written up lines over time; From love, over heart-break to healing. A, hopefully, honest look inside a queer femme’s heart and her journey in life. In these writings, I never intend to shame anyone else’s truth of life, it is simply me sharing my…
Let’s pretend you wake up and you can’t grasp the absurdity you are confronted with. The moment when you feel, yet again, that you are caught in a Kafka-novel and you have this bizarre feeling, where your brain is clearly too overwhelmed to formulate a coherent emotional response. There is a hint of resignation, a…
As a heads up: this article deals with various and explicit levels of sexual assault and might be triggering for some people. I also want to say that in the following I am speaking of women, and I mean all self-identified women, but of course it also effects trans men and non-binary people, as well…
The winter, or maybe more so the disproportional darkness that comes along with it, has a sombre effect on my mood. Struggling with depression and anxiety since I can remember, winter and the months leading up to it are every year a challenging time. So far so, that I try to prepare myself… Not only…